Friday, January 23, 2009
During last week's massage, in addition to the complete relaxation I'm normally able to achieve, I was filled with a feeling I haven't had in a long time: unconditional self-love.
Contrast that with the negative self-talk and complete lack of self esteem I've been experiencing all week, after a painful accident. I was getting into the passenger side of DBF's van, when I opened the door and slammed myself in the head. If that wasn't bad enough, I hit my head right where my daily Migraine pain is centered, near my right temple/cheekbone. This injury has been triggering moderate to severe Migraine pain and symptoms all week, meaning I've spent much of my time lounging around the house like a slug. And berating my stupidity all that time.
Like many other chronically ill women, I've had to shed the Superwoman image pretty fast. When I was working, I simply wasn't able to work a full-time job, equally split the chores and errands and take care of myself. Even now, without the full-time job, I still am not able to divide the chores and errands equally with DBF. He's had to take on the lionshare of typical chores, as well as most of the cooking we do to maintain my strict diet.
Having to give up some of my independence for the sake of my health has been difficult, and is a daily struggle. Just yesterday, I posted on MMC that it's still frustrating and hard to ask for help, even if I'm asking DBF, someone who will never second-guess my judgment about my health. While I've rejected the image of Superwoman, her shadow still lingers and sometimes I can't let go of the (unfair) comparison.
But after a week of calling myself an idiot, I'm remembering the hour of totally unconditional self-love I experienced on Sunday. Love that is much more healing and healthy than guilt is. It wasn't just that I loved myself and my personality; I even loved my body, as imperfect and fragile as it is.
Here's the thing. I'll never be Superwoman. I will always have Migraines, Chronic Daily Headache and IBS. But I will also always have myself and my body.
Acceptance of my chronic illness is something I struggle with every day. Acceptance of myself and my body is no easier, especially with so much stress in my life. But finding that moment of unconditional love last week was inspiring, and enough to remind me that I am worth the effort.
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
And congratulations to our new president, Barack Obama.
Sunday, January 18, 2009
I was very fortunate at my last job to have very good health insurance coverage. My former employer did not charge employees for the basic level of insurance (which included medical, dental and vision). Our prescription plan was only two-tier. Compared to many other chronic illness patients, I was incredibly fortunate to have such great coverage. Even still, it cost me hundreds of dollars a month out-of-pocket. Now, add the cost of my COBRA coverage, and a month's worth of unemployment checks just barely covers a month's worth of treatment costs.
It's no big secret that healthcare is in dire need of reform. Many of us particularly tied to the medical industry - whether we are healthcare providers, chronic illness patients or caregivers - perked up when soon-to-be President Obama emphasized the need for healthcare reform. Cynicism aside, it's reform our country desperately needs.
Before I go on, I do want to mention the importance of universal, affordable healthcare and an effective "cure" for the shortage of primary care physicians. These topics have been written about extensively across the blogosphere, so I won't dedicate much space to them here, other than to say that they are hugely important and difficult tasks to accomplish.
But, beyond these issues is another that cannot be ignored: effective treatment for chronic pain.
According to Rest Ministries, nearly one in two people in America live with chronic illness, and 96% of illness is invisible. Many of these chronic illnesses come with pain. Pain, by its very nature, is often impossible to ignore, extremely debilitating and invisible to those not experiencing it.
This invisibility is particularly problematic when it comes to medical treatment. A familiar story: a Migraineur who finds herself in Status Migrainous, after 72 hours of pain with no relief, dutifully goes to the ER to get the Migraine broken. She knows the increased risk of Stroke after a prolonged Migraine and, per her doctor's orders, goes to the ER. Despite her doctor's treatment protocol (well documented in her records), she is treated like a drug seeker and sent home without breaking the Migraine.
Unfortunately, it has fallen to Migraine (and other chronic pain patients) to address this problem. Teri Robert, a prominent advocate for Migraineurs, has developed and freely distributed a set of ER forms for Migraine patients, in an attempt to get around the dreaded drug seeker label. Many headache specialists will do what they can to help patients get around this obstacle to the care they desperately need. Yet Migraine support groups are full of stories of poor treatment at the ER.
Let me make it clear that I'm not blaming ER doctors for this very real issue. All too often, drug seekers do go to the ER to get narcotic hits. Because pain is invisible - at least in the case of most chronic illnesses - it's hard to tell just by looking at someone if they are, in fact, experiencing a severe pain flare. The drug addicts, DEA and "War on Drugs" have combined to put chronic pain patients in a difficult position. Doctors are reluctant to prescribe pain medications to patients who legitimately need them; those medications, if prescribed, are often underprescribed; and breakthrough pain is a very real problem that chronic pain patients dread. All too often, that puts us in the hands of ER doctors.
But what if it didn't have to be that way?
I ask the Obama administration to work with the healthcare industry to find a solution to these problems, specifically:
- Better treatments for Migraines and other chronic pain;
- Appropriate prescribing of existing and new treatments;
- Individual treatment protocols for patients to address breakthrough pain; and
- Access to necessary emergent care for breakthrough pain (and in the case of Migraines, Status Migrainous).
The skeptical side of me sees this much reform as impossible to achieve. But the optimistic side of me is reaching out to all of you. Patients can't do this alone. Doctors can't do this alone. Nurses can't do this alone. But together, just maybe, yes we can do it.
Wednesday, January 14, 2009
The FDA comment form can be found here. A link from that page will bring you to the full FDA document.
My comments are as follows:
As an individual highly sensitive to a number of foods, I depend on accurate labeling of food products. Because of Chronic Migraines and Irritable Bowel Syndrome, I cannot eat gluten, dairy, monosodium glutamate (MSG), artificial sweeteners, most chemical preservatives/additives or nitrates. I have to severely limit my intake of sugar and salt. Without accurate labeling on food packaging, it is impossible to keep my diet.Thanks to ChronicBabe and Allergic Girl for publicizing this.
The "may contain (allergen)" labeling recently introduced has been a helpful first step for my family and me to determine what I can or cannot eat. However, it is only a first step. Gluten, the protein found in wheat, rye and barley, is not currently labeled as such. Many gluten-sensitive individuals, such as myself, therefore must conduct an extensive amount of research to decide if a particular food is safe or not. This research often ends in contacting a manufacturer directly. Rather than risk consuming unsafe foods and becoming ill, I avoid them.
MSG is also not required to be labeled as such on food packaging. This makes it nearly impossible to avoid in processed foods, when it can masquerade as "autolyzed yeast extract" or even "natural flavoring". Consuming MSG will trigger an almost immediate and severe Migraine, often lasting days and completely debilitating me. Again, rather than risk consuming unsafe foods and becoming ill, I avoid them.
Lastly, when an ingredient such as broth is used in a food, the ingredients of that ingredient are not required to be labeled. Broth is particularly problematic for me - it can contain gluten, dairy, MSG or other foods I am sensitive to. If I buy a package of tuna that contains "broth", I have no way of telling if that tuna is safe for me to eat. Once again, rather than risk consuming unsafe foods and becoming ill, I avoid them.
Practically, all of this food avoidance means my family and I have to cook virtually all of our food from scratch. If food manufacturers are required to label all ingredients in their food in a clear and straightforward manner, it will open up more food options for me and massively simplify my shopping habits.
I therefore urge the FDA to:
1. Continue the "may contain" food labeling;
2. Require all ingredients, including gluten and MSG, to be labeled in a clear and straightforward manner; and
3. Require ingredients of ingredients, such as the ingredients of broth, to be labeled in a clear and straightforward manner.
I applaud the FDA's efforts to clear up food labeling for the sake of food allergic and food sensitive individuals. Now is the time to continue to clarify food labeling, to avoid severe illness caused by unintentional consumption of allergens.
Thank you for your consideration.
Thursday, January 8, 2009
To be honest, I'm not even sure what happened in the past month. The holidays were coming up, sure, but it's not like I was doing last-minute Christmas shopping... or any shopping. DBF and I are still among the ranks of the unemployed, so our gifts to others were very minimal this year.
Our holidays were filled with love, all the same. We spent five days with my family, filled with snow and quiet enjoyment of each others' company. DBF shared some of the cooking duties with my family and left some recipes behind for my mom. It was a nice and recuperative time.
We took the train 500 miles south to visit DBF's family and spend the remaining five days of our trip back east. While this part of our trip was anything but calm, it was a wonderful chance to see family that we don't normally see. Even though it's been two years since I've seen (met) many of them, they hugged and kissed me like I was one of their own. And this year I felt like I was.
There was a lot of stress surrounding Christmas this year - a lot of traveling, including flying; trying to find food safe for me to eat; tight finances and few presents to give out - but it is one of the best I have had in a long time. I'm left with warm feelings of gratitude and fulfillment, like I spent a cold winter's day by the fire with a good book and fuzzy blanket. This is the first Christmas DBF and I have spent together, and it just felt right.
Unfortunately, I caught a pretty nasty cold while we were away, and by the time we got home, I was in poor shape. I very rarely get sick - it's been a couple years, in fact - so I got pretty slammed. Plus, we started moving to our new apartment the week we got back, so I'm still searching for some sort of routine in my life again.
But, I actually feel rather optimistic for 2009. And that is a good feeling.
At the beginning of last year, I wrote:
I don't believe in new year's resolutions, but I am rededicating myself to my healthcare. I have my first appointment with a new headache specialist next week. I am willing to do what it takes to find a treatment regimen that will get my migraines under better control.2008 certainly was not an easy year, but I feel like I did achieve what I set out to do: continue to learn about my disease and take my life back, piece by piece. I did lose ground to the Migraine beastie, when I had to resign from my board position with the AIA. But I feel I'm better able to cope with my illness than I was a year ago.
I am looking back toward 2007 as a year of growth for me. I've learned much more about my disease, and have started keeping a headache diary to better understand my patterns and symptoms. At least now I feel like I'm doing something toward getting better. I am looking forward to 2008 as a year to continue to learn about my disease, but also to take my life back piece by piece.
Something else I wrote about a year ago:
I've now been gluten-free for a year now. The full diet eliminates gluten, cow dairy, MSG, preservatives, artificial sweeteners and caffeine. I've also limited my intake of alcohol, sugar, salt, eggs, nitrites/nitrates and non-cow dairy. I eat organic vegetables and meat as much as possible. I'm proud to say that this diet has massively improved my IBS and cut out my (few) Migraine food triggers (MSG, some wines and artificial sweeteners). I've also lost about 45 pounds, and am a much healthier size 12.
I think the time has come to make the jump and completely eliminate gluten, dairy and sugar. All three intolerances have a strong genetic run in my family (eggs, too). I think it's worth it to give this diet an honest try. If nothing else, I may lose some weight, which would not be a bad thing.
My problem these days is it seems like anything and everything will trigger a migraine. Stackable food triggers (or suspected triggers) currently include: MSG, sugar, soy sauce, salt, wheat, dairy. There are others I can't think of right now. I've already made the switch to organic meat (which tastes a lot better anyway).
I think that I just need to jump in with both feet and give this diet a real chance. I have migraine pain every single day. If cutting out these foods will cut down my head pain even a little, it's worth it to me right now.
I certainly didn't start the diet with the intention of losing weight, but I've found a much healthier self. I still have a long way to go before my Migraines and IBS are well controlled, but I've actually made a lot of progress in the past 12 months. 2008 was a hard year for many reasons, but it was also a year with many successes, and I need to remember that.
So, here's to 2009. I still don't make new year's resolutions, but I will start out 2009 with much the same intention as 2008: I want to continue to learn as much as possible about Migraine disease, and take the best care of myself that I can.
Happy new year, all.